Comments for Live What You Love http://livewhatyoulove.com Live What You Love: The tools you need for the life you want Thu, 28 Aug 2008 02:21:45 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 Comment on Living what you love in Vermont by Bob and Mel http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/17/living-what-you-love-in-vermont/#comment-164 Bob and Mel Thu, 21 Aug 2008 15:38:52 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=145#comment-164 Ava, we're learning as we go about e-commerce and it's been quite an education. We've had bricks and mortar retail stores since 1976 and selling things online is a whole different business. That being said, it's been lots of fun trying to figure it all out. There's a great book called "Website Design for ROI" (Return on Investment) that was recommended to us by an online marketing expert and it's been extremely helpful. It's very simple and straightforward. Ava, we’re learning as we go about e-commerce and it’s been quite an education. We’ve had bricks and mortar retail stores since 1976 and selling things online is a whole different business. That being said, it’s been lots of fun trying to figure it all out. There’s a great book called “Website Design for ROI” (Return on Investment) that was recommended to us by an online marketing expert and it’s been extremely helpful. It’s very simple and straightforward.

]]> Comment on Living what you love in Vermont by Ava http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/17/living-what-you-love-in-vermont/#comment-163 Ava Thu, 21 Aug 2008 02:44:53 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=145#comment-163 Bob and Mel, How did you start your online store? Your stuff is so cute! I love the cow banks. I have thought about doing online retailing but haven't a clue how to begin. Any tips? Bob and Mel,

How did you start your online store? Your stuff is so cute! I love the cow banks.

I have thought about doing online retailing but haven’t a clue how to begin.

Any tips?

]]> Comment on Living what you love in Vermont by Bob and Mel http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/17/living-what-you-love-in-vermont/#comment-157 Bob and Mel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 22:08:29 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=145#comment-157 Brian and Lisa, Welcome to Vermont!!! If you don't have them already, there are three magazines you should read: Vermont, Vermont Life, and Yankee. They're all wonderful in their own way and will provide lots of helpful insight and practical information. What town will you be moving to? We love all parts of the state and enjoy driving around whenever we have some free time. If you check online, there's somthing called the 251 club. You can print a list of the 251 towns in Vermont and keep it in the car, checking them off as you visit each one. We have about 2/3 of them checked already, but recently learned that the real die-hards take a picture in each town to prove they've been there. We haven't gone that far but it's still fun to explore all parts of the state - especially at different times of the year. Brian and Lisa, Welcome to Vermont!!! If you don’t have them already, there are three magazines you should read: Vermont, Vermont Life, and Yankee. They’re all wonderful in their own way and will provide lots of helpful insight and practical information.

What town will you be moving to? We love all parts of the state and enjoy driving around whenever we have some free time. If you check online, there’s somthing called the 251 club. You can print a list of the 251 towns in Vermont and keep it in the car, checking them off as you visit each one. We have about 2/3 of them checked already, but recently learned that the real die-hards take a picture in each town to prove they’ve been there. We haven’t gone that far but it’s still fun to explore all parts of the state - especially at different times of the year.

]]> Comment on It doesn’t have to be all or nothing by Bob and Mel http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/28/it-doesnt-have-to-be-all-or-nothing/#comment-156 Bob and Mel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:46:54 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=156#comment-156 Linda, you are truly an inspiration! And you're so right when you say that everyone has the choice to live what they love. People tell us we're lucky that we can divide our time between Vermont and the Caribbean. Sometimes we just agree and say yes, we're very lucky. But inside we know that it's not about luck at all. We worked hard and continue to work hard to create the life we want. We live passionately and don't regret it for a minute. We're thrilled to hear that you're in the ACT stage of our 5 D.R.E.A.M. steps. And your business hits close to home for us, considering our love for the Caribbean and the fact that we used to have a specialty food company. Congratulations and thanks so much for sharing your story and your progress. We're sure that your success will light a spark for someone else and inspire them to make their own move. Linda, you are truly an inspiration! And you’re so right when you say that everyone has the choice to live what they love. People tell us we’re lucky that we can divide our time between Vermont and the Caribbean. Sometimes we just agree and say yes, we’re very lucky. But inside we know that it’s not about luck at all. We worked hard and continue to work hard to create the life we want. We live passionately and don’t regret it for a minute.

We’re thrilled to hear that you’re in the ACT stage of our 5 D.R.E.A.M. steps. And your business hits close to home for us, considering our love for the Caribbean and the fact that we used to have a specialty food company.

Congratulations and thanks so much for sharing your story and your progress. We’re sure that your success will light a spark for someone else and inspire them to make their own move.

]]> Comment on It doesn’t have to be all or nothing by Bob and Mel http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/28/it-doesnt-have-to-be-all-or-nothing/#comment-155 Bob and Mel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:33:23 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=156#comment-155 Nancy, do you realize how wonderful it is that you're so passionate about acting? We hear from so many people who have no idea what they want to do. You're already on your way and that's really fantastic! You've also successfully identified specific parts of your life that absolutely must change. Health problems due to stress are just not acceptable. You've GOT to figure this out! Why don't you set aside some time to talk openly and honestly with your husband? Maybe go for a long walk or even go somewhere for a weekend with the sole purpose of coming up with some options. Take a copy of "Changing Your Course" with you so you can do some of the exercises together. That will help get you started. As far as the economy goes, ask yourself if you might be using it as an excuse. If gas prices were cut in half and the mortgage crisis didn't exist, would you be making your move? Nancy, do you realize how wonderful it is that you’re so passionate about acting? We hear from so many people who have no idea what they want to do. You’re already on your way and that’s really fantastic!

You’ve also successfully identified specific parts of your life that absolutely must change. Health problems due to stress are just not acceptable. You’ve GOT to figure this out!

Why don’t you set aside some time to talk openly and honestly with your husband? Maybe go for a long walk or even go somewhere for a weekend with the sole purpose of coming up with some options. Take a copy of “Changing Your Course” with you so you can do some of the exercises together. That will help get you started.

As far as the economy goes, ask yourself if you might be using it as an excuse. If gas prices were cut in half and the mortgage crisis didn’t exist, would you be making your move?

]]> Comment on It doesn’t have to be all or nothing by Bob and Mel http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/28/it-doesnt-have-to-be-all-or-nothing/#comment-154 Bob and Mel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:21:55 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=156#comment-154 Anne, you made us laugh right out loud! Adopt you, huh? Mmmmmm. We'll give it some thought. And honestly, there's nothing at all to be impressed about. We've only been able to accomplish so much by being stubborn. Our passions and our values are what motivate us. You can look at life the same way, if you choose to do so. We're not saying it's easy but it's definitely a matter of choice. Don't give up!!! Take one teeny, tiny step at a time and things will change. Please keep in touch and let us know what you're up to. And again, please accept our sincere apologies for not responding sooner. We feel terrible! Anne, you made us laugh right out loud! Adopt you, huh? Mmmmmm. We’ll give it some thought. And honestly, there’s nothing at all to be impressed about. We’ve only been able to accomplish so much by being stubborn. Our passions and our values are what motivate us. You can look at life the same way, if you choose to do so. We’re not saying it’s easy but it’s definitely a matter of choice. Don’t give up!!! Take one teeny, tiny step at a time and things will change. Please keep in touch and let us know what you’re up to. And again, please accept our sincere apologies for not responding sooner. We feel terrible!

]]> Comment on It doesn’t have to be all or nothing by Bob and Mel http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/28/it-doesnt-have-to-be-all-or-nothing/#comment-153 Bob and Mel Thu, 14 Aug 2008 19:14:03 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=156#comment-153 We owe everyone an apology for not responding to your posts sooner. We've had a few technical problems and finally figured out what needed to be done. Computers are great - except for the days you want to throw them into the sea. Anyway, please know that we are truly sorry to have been out of touch for a little while and that we really do appreciate your participating on our blog. We owe everyone an apology for not responding to your posts sooner. We’ve had a few technical problems and finally figured out what needed to be done. Computers are great - except for the days you want to throw them into the sea. Anyway, please know that we are truly sorry to have been out of touch for a little while and that we really do appreciate your participating on our blog.

]]> Comment on Living what you love in Vermont by Brian & Lisa http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/17/living-what-you-love-in-vermont/#comment-152 Brian & Lisa Thu, 14 Aug 2008 18:16:04 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=145#comment-152 We will be moving to Vt some time in the near future. I have never been, but my husband lived in the NE until he was 14 yr. old. I look for pictures, comments, stories or anything I can get my hands about the state. I'm so excited! We are from Arkansas. We will be moving to Vt some time in the near future. I have never been, but my husband lived in the NE until he was 14 yr. old. I look for pictures, comments, stories or anything I can get my hands about the state. I’m so excited! We are from Arkansas.

]]> Comment on It doesn’t have to be all or nothing by Linda Benjamin http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/28/it-doesnt-have-to-be-all-or-nothing/#comment-151 Linda Benjamin Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:13:12 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=156#comment-151 Bob and Mel, I shared with you via email my story of faith and trust in my move to the Caribbean years ago. If I had not had the ability to see that we can control our destiny as well as how and where we spend our days, I would not have all that I do today. When I tell people 'my story' thay say how 'lucky' I am. I respond gently that everyone has the choice to decide these elements of their lives. However, when I look at the crossroad of where I am today in terms of my job, it is again time to review my 'passion'. By Leaning on your strategy of DREAM, I am in the stages of ACT. I have started a business to share my passion of all things Caribbean. Showcasing terrific Pantry items various islands have to offer. It hss rejuvenated my spirit to be able to get started on my business. Making the 'To Do' list and then checking items off. It is very satisfying. Taking the small steps while still working at has allowed me to see that it doesn't have to be all or nothing. The most exciting part is to be able to see that sooner rather than later my passion will be my full time job! Thanks for your coaching and very workable strategies in Changing Courses. Best regards, Linda Bob and Mel,
I shared with you via email my story of faith and trust in my move to the Caribbean years ago. If I had not had the ability to see that we can control our destiny as well as how and where we spend our days, I would not have all that I do today. When I tell people ‘my story’ thay say how ‘lucky’ I am. I respond gently that everyone has the choice to decide these elements of their lives.

However, when I look at the crossroad of where I am today in terms of my job, it is again time to review my ‘passion’. By Leaning on your strategy of DREAM, I am in the stages of ACT. I have started a business to share my passion of all things Caribbean. Showcasing terrific Pantry items various islands have to offer. It hss rejuvenated my spirit to be able to get started on my business. Making the ‘To Do’ list and then checking items off. It is very satisfying. Taking the small steps while still working at has allowed me to see that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. The most exciting part is to be able to see that sooner rather than later my passion will be my full time job! Thanks for your coaching and very workable strategies in Changing Courses.
Best regards,
Linda

]]> Comment on It doesn’t have to be all or nothing by Nancy http://livewhatyoulove.com/2008/07/28/it-doesnt-have-to-be-all-or-nothing/#comment-150 Nancy Sat, 09 Aug 2008 18:53:33 +0000 http://livewhatyoulove.com/?p=156#comment-150 Hello Bob and Mel, First of all, I would like to say how much I enjoy your postings and website. I am looking forward to reading your books. I am in my mid 50s and work as an actress and a bookkeeper. I am very unhappy at my bookkeeping job - like the people, hate the job. I adore acting. Even though I have only been pursuing this for a few years, I have already been in 5 movies, a TV show, a video, and a TV commercial. The work comes in spurts. Sometimes, I am very busy, sometimes, not so busy. I have been trying to combine both jobs but it isn't working. I am missing out on alot of acting work because of my bookkeeping job. Also I am having health problems due to all the stress I am under trying to juggle both jobs. I should add that my husband and I maintain two residences which adds to the stress load. I keep telling my husband, I want to get down to 1 job and 1 home. Still I am afraid to take the plunge because of how bad the economy is and also how unstable the acting business is. My husband and I do okay financially so I can afford to quit. Still I am afraid to take the plunge. Any thoughts? Thank you Hello Bob and Mel,

First of all, I would like to say how much I enjoy your postings and website. I am looking forward to reading your books.

I am in my mid 50s and work as an actress and a bookkeeper. I am very unhappy at my bookkeeping job - like the people, hate the job.

I adore acting. Even though I have only been pursuing this for a few years, I have already been in 5 movies, a TV show, a video, and a TV commercial. The work comes in spurts. Sometimes, I am very busy, sometimes, not so busy.

I have been trying to combine both jobs but it isn’t working. I am missing out on alot of acting work because of my bookkeeping job.

Also I am having health problems due to all the stress I am under trying to juggle both jobs. I should add that my husband and I maintain two residences which adds to the stress load. I keep telling my husband, I want to get down to 1 job and 1 home. Still I am afraid to take the plunge because of how bad the economy is and also how unstable the acting business is.

My husband and I do okay financially so I can afford to quit. Still I am afraid to take the plunge. Any thoughts? Thank you

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